In my lifetime, I have never witnessed enduring unconditional love from another human being. I do not believe it is physically possible. I think that once we have reached that position of being able to give it, we have already passed over to join with the one that is unconditional love. I believe that this state is only experienced spiritually.

It is our inborn desire to move to a place of unconditional love and that is what we strive to do, once we reach a measure of enlightenment that facilitates this kind of growth. As human beings, we attach conditions to our physical love (emotion). I will love you as long as you fit into a set of parameters that I can accept, and live with. Once you have crossed over the line, I can no longer love you. For humans, this is a matter of ownership. Love is not abstract, but something that is real and physical. It is a feeling that we possess and can access.

Universal love (Gods love) is abstract and impartial. It is not felt, but acknowledged. The creator acknowledges the love of humanity,by granting unconditional love (freedom) from him/her.

Humanity is free to screw up his whole life, come back in another lifetime and screw it up again and again until he no longer wishes to experience screwing it up and wants to move on. Can there be a greater example of unconditional love? Re-incarnation is the ultimate expression of unconditional love and helps us with the screwing up process. Every lifetime is a screw-up until we get it perfect, then it becomes a perfect screw-up. Unless of course we choose to call it something else.

There is no reason, save the one you give to your life for being perfect. You are just trying to get there. You do not have to be there. You can take as long as you want to reach that plateau.

This may seem strange coming from a spiritualist, but I believe it is my way of demonstrating unconditional love. We all take our lives away too seriously. We need to chill out. There isn't any advantage to being able to stand back from our lives as the silent observer and judge ourselves without condemnation about who, what and where we are.

All of us are perfect the way we are. Each of us is in the exact place in time and space that is appropriate for us. We do not need anyone's permission to be so. Because we are creating the circumstances and events of our lives, we can do as we please. Any punishment or retribution that we experience will come from others in this lifetime because we have chosen to experience that punishment at some level.

The more aware we are that we create our own experiences, the more freedom we will have to manifest others on demand. Any negative thoughts we may have about the process will determine how successful we are at it.

Once again, the greatest love of all is freedom to live our lives as we CHOOSE with the guaranty that we can do it over and over again until we know longer choose to.

Man does not have the ability to grant unconditional love to another, because in fact he cannot give it away, until he grants it to himself first.

Roy Klienwachter

Roy E. Klienwachter is a New Age Lightworker, ordained minister student of NLP and author of several books and hundreds of articles on the subject of New Age Philosophy. Roy's articles are thought provoking and are intended to cause people to think about who they are, not only in the physical sense but spiritually as well. Roy teaches New seekers to use critical thinking to explore their own awareness and to move past what he brings into their lives. Awareness and enlightenment comes first with the desire to be enlightened. Roy teaches what he himself seeks to learn. Life was never meant to be a struggle, and all things happen not from chance but from desire. Power can never be taken from you and you give it up freely for a measure of false security and promises. Power only comes to those that are willing to use it. We all have the power over our lives and our death. If you have been feeling restless and have begun to explore outside of your box then read some of Roy's articles and visit his web site. You may not always agree with what he has to say, but you will always come away with a new perspective, your life will be changed. Your life begins and ends when you say it does. And you are not a victim of circumstance you are creating it. If you are waiting for someone or something to do it for you, you are wasting your time, it's never going to happen. Take responsibility for all of your life, past, present and future. Are you along for the ride or are you driving?