Have you heard of people surrounding themselves with photographs of celebrities? What if a spouse does that? She/he likes that celebrity immensely and keeps surrounded by his/her photographs in the work place and at home? How does that affect the relationship? In young age, we develop infatuation with some celebrities. We keep track of everything about that celebrity. We try to get some memorabilia of that celebrity. We don't think of any other celebrity other than our chose one. He/she is our star; the best and we will do anything for him/her. This kind of infatuation comes in young age to most of the people and disappears after some years. What if it continues after marriage? It can affect the marriage. How will you like it if your husband/wife does that? You will wonder about your role in his/her life. Is that correct? To be a fan and to be in infatuation is different. if you dream and think of somebody else while having got married that can kill the relationship. No relationship can withstand this kind of onslaught. What can be done about this? If your partner is having this problem, please tell them - Darling how would you feel if I also surround myself with my favorite celebrity? Reason with your spouse and ask them to be only a fan of that celebrity. Tell them about the effect this kind of worship is having on the married relationship. To get some body out of such infatuation quickly is not easy. But try and you should get results over time. |