To attract and seduce a woman, it is necessary to "build trust" with her. The aim of comfort building is to get the woman from a mental state where she's just met you and doesn't know you at allto a mental state where she starts to let her "guard" down and to trust you. Once you succeed in this, she'll be more inclined to get "physical" with you. You see, every woman's worry is that if she sleeps with you too soon after meeting you, you'll automatically think she's cheap and "slutty." So, the way to convince the woman that you are trustworthy and will respect her and not think she's cheap is through the skill of "story telling." For example, if I just met you and I told you that I was a trustworthy guy and I was hardworking and genuine, would you necessarily believe what I say just because I said it? Not likely. When we humans are stating 'straightforward' logical facts to someone, we are generally engaging the left side of the listener's brain, which processes purely logical information. Humans do not EMOTIONALLY engage with logical information. When trying to engage and connect with someone emotionally, you want to target the right side of their brain which responds to emotions, and how do you do that? You tell stories. What particular types of stories should you tell? You should tell stories that show you in a vulnerable light, where either you made some type of 'blunder' or you lost something or someone and for which you were deeply affected and sad. For example you could tell her about the time when you lost your pet cat or dog, and how it affected you and what this emotion meant to your life and so on. You see, what this does is it shows the woman a slight weakness in your past and that psychologically results in her trusting you more and seeing you as a sensitive guy in addition to already being an alpha male. Now, it is extremely important to FIRST demonstrate that you are indeed an "ALPHA" male because if you don't do that, and you present a vulnerable side without the alpha side of your character, you'll risk her thinking you're just a WIMP. But once she already sees you as an alpha male, then she has to feel that she can trust you before she gets physical with you and for her to trust you, you have to do enough "trust building." You do this, of course by telling the right stories from your past life experience that shows you're a sensitive, vulnerable and trustworthy guy. For example, you should tell stories about how you lost your dearest dog that meant so much to you growing up as a child. Or how you helped someone get safely home one night when they were unable to get there on their own. You see, the stories are designed to get her "picturing" you as a guy who can be trusted and who has a "heart." Once you have told the right stories, you will notice that the girl starts to make a deeper emotional connection with you. She might start to ask you more personal questions and may even begin to physically touch you a lot more (light touching of your arms as she laughs at funny things you're saying in conversation.) When she begins to give you these verbal and non-verbal signs of emotional connection and deepening interest, then you know that she is ready for you to start making "physical" moves. |
