Many times men pass up opportunities to go out on dates simply because a woman isn't exactly your type. If you have a full schedule passing up on dates is okay, however, if the majority of your weeknights consists of watching TV and playing video games. Perhaps you should reconsider going out with plain Jane in accounting. Practicing your seduction skills is always a good thing and making mistakes with women you aren't really attracted to and learning from them is much easier to swallow than making these same mistakes with women who you are attracted to. You will find that the best time to ask women that you aren't extremely attracted to out is the day of, hopefully you have already been flirting with her for sometime as a testing board and when you find yourself with nothing to do on a Thursday night you can simply say you know what I think it would be fun if we hung out together are you doing anything special tonight. During your date you are going to want to test out all those theories and techniques that you need to work on and escalation techniques. If your game is already tight then you would not be on this date anyway so it is okay to be honest with yourself and try those techniques that you don't know work yet. An important point to remember is you want to be honest about your intentions with this woman. If you do end up sleeping with her make sure you let her know that it isn't anything serious and that it is best to simply remain just casual friends. Believe it or not women do the same thing so most women will be happy that you chose to be honest with them and you are conveying that you have higher value as well. I don't need to lie to have sex with you because I know that I can get it anytime I want you just happened to be who I was with for the night. Also you need to realize that the bigger the network of your friends the more opportunities that you will have to attract women. Imagine if plain Jane has a cousin coming into town who happens to be your type. The weekend comes along and since you and Jane are friendly she asks if you want to join her and her cousin for drinks. Now I am not saying that plain Jane is going to have a cousin that you are attracted to. However do you really think plain Jane is going to invite you to anything if you never even took the time to get to know her? |
