The twelve astrology signs are composed of the four elements of fire (3), earth (3), air (3) and water (3). If you have planets in signs that are not compatible, they are out of sync, and can cause some serious problems in your relationships.

For example, if you are a woman with your Sun in Cancer (water) and your Mars is in Aquarius (air), your heart (Sun) is out of sync with your passion (Mars). This means that you love a man who is emotional (water) and has a love of the home and family (Cancer). But you are physcially attracted to an Aquarian man (air) who is detached emotionally and totally unpredictable. He has no interest in the home and family. In this case, you may become confused about your relationships because you may be going after men who cannot fulfill your Cancer need for a home and family life. If you understand this about yourself, your motivations, desires, and attitudes will make more sense to you.

At this point, you may be wondering "What can I do about these conflicting needs? How can I find a man who is compatible with me"? The obvious answer is to find someone who has the same kind of "attitudes" (signs) as you. You would need to consult an astrologer to help you determine the real attitudes of a man you are attracted to and avoid being deceived by your attractions.

If you are a man and have your Venus in Gemioni (air) and your Moon is in Scorpio (water), your heart loves a woman who is sensual, loyal and intense. But your Venus in Gemini leads you to go after a woman who is cute, clever and very stimulating mentally. But if you expect deep, emotional responses from her (which your Moon requires), she will simply fly away. She will not be around for you. Actually, what you want is a woman who is bright and intellectual, but very intense, loyal and sensual a combination of both types of women. You, too, would would need to consult an astrologer to help you determine the real attitudes of a woman you are attracted to and avoid being deceived by your own attractions to her.

I have merely scratched the surface of the complexities of the signs and their infinite combinations. But with just this little bit of insight you can find out if you have any signs out of sync and what they mean for you. A skilled astrologer can help you make these determinations, or you can learn ow to this yourself.

2005 Randall Curtis

Randall Curtis

Randall Curtis is a professional astrologer with world-wide clients, founder of Planetary Psychology?, and The Institute of Professional Astrology. He presently runs the online Matchmaking Learning Center which offers complete life readings, Master Matchmaking Course on Relationships, The Soul Mate Search Project, How to Avoid Difficult Relationships, The Miraculous Life Seminars, and a 48- Lesson Training to become a certified, professional astrologer.